Third culture in a word is Adaptation. In two words, Painful Adaptation. The longer definition is “the mindset and will to love, learn and serve in any culture even in the midst of pain and discomfort.”
It’s a church that is able to flow with the Holy Spirit, choosing to live out the two great purposes of the church: Loving God and Loving Her Neighbor. The Neighbor though being someone NOT like you even someone you would hate or not want to forgive. It’s a church that chooses obedience over passion as well as radical sacrifice over comfort.
Dave Gibbons is senior pastor of the multi-site New Song Church with locations in California, Texas, Mexico, London, India, and Bangkok. He knows something about cross-cultural ministry.
I especially like Dave’s insight into the second greatest commandment (“Love your neighbor as yourself”). My heart for the poor and homeless connected with his vision as he described our neighbor as “instead of being someone like him, was someone not like him at all, someone he would be uncomfortable with or even hate.” He goes on to say that the second most important commandment “is all about loving people we don’t understand… People who are misfits. People who are marginalized. People who are outsiders… Instead, it’s about people I would not normally choose to befriend, people who might make me feel uncomfortable to be around.”
Rockbridge Seminarystudents who have completed the online course “The Theology and Practice of Evangelism” may want to learn why Gibbons was not satisfied with terms like “diverse” and “multiethnic” when describing his church and why he started using “third culture”: